Snoop a Stranger's Business--Psychic Advice for Chip and his sister

My nephew died from leukemia this year. My sister is mourning. She is thinking about contacting a medium. Do you know anything about them?
Chip

I do not know any mediums personally. I did talk to a client last month whose son had passed on, yet she was still able to see him. She asked for my help in trying to hear him. I suggested that her ability to see him was a gift and I encouraged her to be happy with either seeing or hearing him.

If your sister does decide to try to find a medium, be really careful. People claim to be what they are not. It takes a huge amount of energy for me to work on murder cases...to see and hear people who have passed. I do not know how anyone could work as a medium more than once, or at most, twice a day.

Instead of seeking another person to be a medium, maybe your sister can try to do it on her own. When she is reminded of her son, I suggest she try not to fight it, despite her pain. Hear him and see him and immerse herself in what she might believe is a memory. Psychic abilities and memories lie on the same brain path...a floating kind of looseness of thought.

To connect with another dimension, one must not be afraid. To experience anything new, one must use a leap of faith. We all have difficulty with change, and her son has changed form. His physical plant is gone but he can live on in her mind and life. She can find joy where he found joy.

I hope I have helped. My best to your family in your time of sorrow.
Jan Helen

Stuck in Time

"Hey, Jan, saw your show on Discover ID last week," the horn teacher at the music store where I teach voice told me.

In 1993, I told a local county detective where to find a missing killer. As a result of that case, I was featured on Psychic Witness, a Circle of Enemies in 2006. When the producer of the show first called me, I was hesitant to expose my abilities. For all my life, I kept my pro bono psychic work a secret. Even with cops, I used only my middle name, Helen.

When it was time for my show to air in 2006, I did a big publicity drive...newspapers, television news, local magazines. I opened up to my friends, who then laughed. They thought I was making it all up. They thought they knew me.

I didn't tell them because I was scared. Very little frightens me, but the thought of hurt for my children puts me in a spin. Would they be ridiculed? Would they suddenly have new friends who wanted their fortunes told? Would I lose music students and not be able to support all three of us?

My worries dissolved with the advent of the show. My teenagers' lives didn't change and mine changed only a little. I was 54 and well equiped to handle a bit of fame.

Here's the best part of Psychic Witness reruns. I am perpetually 54. Like Mayberry and The Beverly Hillbillies, I am stuck in time. This is a NO CHANGE I enjoy.


Readers: Any NO CHANGE situations you want to share?

Snoop a Stranger's Business--Psychic Advice for Flo

During a routine surgery a nerve was damaged and my digestive system has been paralyzed. I am planning to go to another state to get a second opinion. Will I get the proper treatment from the doctors here in my state and will I win a lawsuit to pay for my treatment?
Flo

Flo, it is important to trust your instincts. Something is drawing you to another state for a second opinion, and it seems that you are leaning towards treatment in that state. When terrible things happen to nice people, I feel awful. My desire for your lawsuit win overshadows my abilities. I want you to have the money to pay for treatments, and I think you will find it.

We all have the gift of intuition. Use yours wisely, be optimistic in looking at the positive ways your life has changed, and visualize good health. I believe relief will come.
Jan Helen

Do You See Psychic Stuff All Day Long?

I try not to "see" things all day. I struggle to keep the left...analytical...side of my brain in action when I leave the house. Before I started work on murder cases in 1991, I was a social gal. When I opened the vent of my intuitive abilities, I felt bombarded with feelings and knowledge of the unknown. I then became a bit of a hermit.

I teach music, so my intuitive abilities help me there, but I cannot let my mind run amok through my music client's house and life. I liken it to feeling sad over the loss of a pet. You grieve, then you pull yourself out of it and have some happy times. Or I liken it to worry about money. Why worry all day? Put those worry feelings in a drawer to be opened later.

Yes, the answer to your question is yes. I see things all day long. Quite possibly, you "see" things all day long too. Acknowlege your intuitive thoughts and you will have more of them.

Being Psychic---How Do You Do It?

Gifted psychics are conduits for information. I don't know the source. It could be the will of God. It could be a force no one can ever explain. Like the Biblical "speaking in tongues", I receive information, which passes across my tongue. It does not come from my brain and I remember very little of what I predict.

I liken myself to a radio. I don't create information, I just pass it along. Each day for me is different. On my normal days, I make jokes that my antennae is down. Those are the days I mosey around, content in my own skin.

Other days I pick up every nuance of people's behavior. Their actions and personality pop out at me. When I order pizza, I see not only the man behind the counter, but also his living room and his children's antics. At the post office, a blank stare barely registers with me. Instead, I see that guy in his kitchen as he tells a big fat lie to his wife. When I stop at a red light and look to my left at a shuttered house, I see through its walls and into the lives of the people inside.

We all have gifts. Only with hard work can we hone our craft. I have studied and worked hard. Now I find it easy to open the right side of my brain and let my intuition rule.

Jolly Job with Cantankerous Co-workers--Snoop a Stranger's Business--Psychic Advice

I am an elementary school art teacher and I work with especially difficult colleagues. Will the situation improve for me? Frustrated Fran

Hello Frustrated Fran,

These colleagues will not change for the better. The ring leader seems to have a lot of power at that school, maybe a tie-in with the principal or a board member. The situation is rampant and out of control.

You are a tolerant woman. This choice is yours alone. If you can hold out for 3-5 years, the situation will improve, but why wait?

I suggest searching for a new school. Think about teaching older students. You might find them more enjoyable than you envision. Jan Helen


Free questions can be sent to jan.mcgee@gmail.com or www.janhelenmcgee.com. All names are changed.

Snoop a Stranger's Business--Psychic Advice for Tatiana

I just broke up with my boyfriend who was a jerk. I feel he was maybe instigating fights so that he would then be free to date other people and then calling me again when he got bored or it didn't work out. How will I know when I meet the "right" guy who will be serious about me? Is there such a thing as one true soul mate or just two people committed to working through the storms of life together? Tatiana

I see this man as part of your life in the future. I think he has a good heart but I am not sure you are in a place where a relationship can take priority. Use this time to work on your career and independence. Act like a man, forget romance for now and give all your energy to work. As you get stronger, this man will be strongly drawn to you.

“Two people committed to working through the storms of life together”….what an excellent way to express love. Serious love is mutual. You will know it when you experience it. Jan Helen


Free questions should be sent to jan.mcgee@gmail.com All names are changed

Snoop a Stranger's Business--Psychic Advice for Grab-the-Bull-by-the-Horns Gal

Do you see me with anyone for a long time and am I financially going to be alright for the future? Grab-the-Bull-by-the-Horns Gal


Hello Grab-the-Bull-by-the-Horns Gal,

When you are hungry, you will eat an old hot dog or a piece of white bread. I think you are hungry for a relationship, but you might have been watching too many Cinderella movies.

Your prince will not sweep into the ball. You have to find him. That can be easy, since I believe there is a man in your immediate vicinity who cares deeply for you. He isn’t perfect, far from it, but he has the core values you cherish.

Do not overlook this man. He has a bit of a funny looking face, but his body is bangin’. His heart is pure and he is a one woman man. You have had enough of the cheaters with handsome faces.
He is short, wide but not fat. He has bristly facial hair and dark hair with a receding hairline. He is quiet and a very good worker. A future with him will also solve your financial worries!

Snoop a Stranger's Business---Advice for Wife of the Jobless

My husband was laid off in the spring and we assume it is permanent. He is having a hard time moving forward. Not good with change....will there be any change coming our way soon in regards to our financial situation? I guess I am asking will he find a new job? Thanks!
Wife of the Jobless

Hello Wife of the Jobless,

Try to stop thinking your husband should move forward. That is more your style, not his.
Your husband thinks before he acts. He is thinking about his future. His head swirls with ideas but he keeps his thoughts private until he formulates an action plan. You can work harder, with more hours for now.

Yes, there will be change. I think your husband’s work in the future will be more creative and he will be happier. Let him find his own way.

Snoop a Stranger's Business--Psychic Advice for Debbie

My website gives info on how to get free psychic advice. This is the first in my series of "Snoop a Stranger's Business". All names are fictitious but the questions and answers are real.

My husband and I started an embroidery business and I started a skin care business….will we be successful and have decent income from them? Debbie Do it Yourself-er

Hello Debbie Do it Yourselfer,

The name I invented for you says it all. You WILL be successful if you do it yourself. I have more of a leaning towards your embroidery business. I suggest adding classes and as many branches to this business as you can. I see your husband doing the business end and you the social end. The skin care business will be ok, but I think it may dwindle in time and you would be better served putting your effort into something more creative with your fingers, such as the embroidery.

I Thought I Was Finished with Murder Dreams

My murder dreams stopped in 1993 when I started my pro bono work with police. I thought they were gone for good. I figured that working on murder cases gave me a free pass.

But NO, they're BACK. Or at least one of them. It went like this....

Boston, night, rough part of town. One gang full of Vietnamese teens on bikes being chased by another gang of older teens in an old Chevy. The Chevy hit one of the boys on his bike and he fell under the car. He looked dead. I tried to alert authorities but they ignored me and seemed corrupt.

The next day I saw on the news that many corrupt officials had been arrested in New Jersey.

I worried all week about the Vietnamese boy's family.

I hate these dreams. When people tell me, "Oh, you are lucky, I would love to be psychic," I tell them, "There are parts of it you don't want."

We all have crosses to bear. Despite my abilities to help solve crimes, I feel like a lost sheep after my dreams. Maybe I will be fleeced and this will by my last one.

One Life, Two Lives

“I have never told anyone this, and it sounds so odd, but you will have two lives,” I told the plush blonde who looked to be about my age. That was her second reading in two years.

I forget my clients as soon as they leave my presence. It seems the information goes through me like a radio. I am merely a transmitter.

In her third reading the third year, her eagerness to tell me what happened made her body bounce.

“At first I thought, because my husband died, that I would have another husband, and that would mean another type of life. But in January I had a massive heart attack. I was dead for eight minutes.

The doctor told my sister and daughter, who sat at my hospital bed, that I would have brain damage. As I came to, my first words were, ‘She told me I would have two lives.’

The first thing I saw was your face,” she said, then laughed at her family’s reaction to her initial words.

My oddity astounds me. This tale told by a beautiful woman makes me want to continue with my readings, despite my initial hesitations.

We are all good at something.

How Much Do I Tell a Client?

Who killed my husband? Will I make it through the divorce? Will I have another heart attack if I have sex?

These 3 questions came from 3 clients in May.

I never know what to withhold and what to tell? I am not a genius, merely a woman with a gift.

Maybe it is like "country club" behavior.....try to be polite, key into the person with whom I'm communicating, and then hope for the best.

My underlying concern keeps me on target.

Does a house have a soul?

I visited an old house this afternoon with warm energy and pulsing walls.

Maybe it remembered the people who had lived there or maybe I only remembered.

In museums with re-created rooms or in museums of old buildings, I usually see entities (people who have passed on) cooking or dancing or floating in their favorite spot.

This house had no entities, only its own. So my question for this day is.....does a house have a soul?

Do I see people as colors?

One of the gals from my beauty salon asked if I see people as colors.

Sometimes I see a wave of light and color around someone, but more often I see a color when I pinpoint people's health problems.

Monday I read tarot for a man with romance issues. I knew he had a bad knee because radiating around his right knee I saw a dark colored heat.